Frequently Asked Questions

  • When did you realize you were into discipline?
  • My earliest memory would be having a boyfriend in high school who was singing along to the Grease soundtrack and I took his belt off and smacked him with it HARD when he didn’t perform on a level that met My expectations.
  • Do you use safe words?
  • Never. Mommy didn't give you a safe word, why would I?
  • What is your preferred attire?
  • My go-to attire consists of blouse and skirt and I enjoy 1950’s-1960’s Mad Men type of dresses. I fetishize that genre and it really works for my type of play.
  • Do you ever switch?
  • No, I never switch. I have always been a Top. I enjoy Total Power Exchange from that view and being the ruler of my world. I’m also in a Female Led Relationship in my personal life as well.
  • You mention that you don't play light, will you ever take a session where the spankee cannot be marked?
  • No, doesn't interest me. That sort of thing isn't ever negotiated in a real-life context, why should it be with me?
  • Do you ever include witnesses to watch your punishment sessions?
  • Yes! I have plenty of vanilla friends who enjoy my career path and will come and watch a session. I do charge a nominal fee for their time.
  • Do you ever double up with other disciplinarians?
  • Yes. I enjoy Josephine Drake here in Los Angeles. There are others here as well, although she’s my favorite.
  • Do you allow climax in session?
  • That isn’t something I focus on. Sometimes a client will become aroused and it can happen and I’m not opposed to it. That said, I do not perform any sort of sexual service, no happy endings, nothing, So don’t ever ask. You’re in my presence for one reason and one reason only.
  • Do you allow top from the bottom clients?
  • Never. That’s a huge pet peeve of mine. Don’t ever do it or I’ll call the session and you will not be refunded. You’ve been warned.
  • Do you see women?
  • Yes, I do. Over the last couple of years, I’ve had a huge influx of women clients and I welcome it. I also get couples where the woman isn’t necessarily into being the disciplinarian but recognizes her husband needs correction, and will send him to me with a list of reasons he’s being punished. I find that dynamic incredibly hot!
  • Do you do phone sessions?
  • Yes, you can contact me directly for details.
  • Do you enjoy gifts?
  • Sure, but they won’t get you out of your punishment. Bribes may cost you 50 more! But if you truly appreciate my role in your life, then it can be a nice gesture. For the most part, I enjoy purchasing my own gifts from the following outlets: Boden.com, Amazon.com, Sephora.com, Ebay.com